7. Unjustified Complaints. We’re human and we’re going to make mistakes. Truth be known, I make a lot of mistakes. That’s why I don’t like getting the blame for something I had nothing to do with. Tip: Consider the source. Does the complainer have the right information, the right attitude, and the right credentials to [...]
4. Lack of Parental Support. Even if you do everything you can to get parents on your side, there may be times when you lack the support you desire and need. As the youth minister, you may get blamed for a teen’s personal problems because, “You didn’t do enough.” Or you may not be going [...]
1. Losing teens. Whether to the world, another group, or relocation, losing a teen pulls a minister down. And it always seems to happen when the kid was making a breakthrough, or having a tremendous impact on the rest of the group. Tip: Don’t take it personally when a teen leaves. It may be her [...]
1. Specific. Begin setting goals by getting specific. Nail down your desire to enable a clear picture in exact terms. A general goal may be, “I want to read more this year.” A specific goal would define “more” and the books on the “to read” list. Specific: “I will read one new book a month [...]